Some guys are naturally drawn to older women like any other physical "type," such as preferring blondes to brunettes.A cougar exudes self-confidence, which makes her a highly desirable conquest to a younger man.She gets bored with older men who many times lose their "" as they age.She's independent and spontaneous, which fits well with an energetic younger guy.A friend who uses it tells me: “It’s good if you’re picky…but there aren’t a lot of people on it.” Cost: Free I can’t really make a list of the best dating sites without mentioning Tinder. Tinder once had a reputation for being a ‘shagging app’ - but that's changed.A possible drawback could be a limited number of users – those figures aren’t available online - but it does look like a good app if music plays a significant part in your life and loves.
The younger man will ultimately want children and will dump the older woman who already has a brood.
The "Urban Dictionary" states: "Cougars are gaining in popularity — particularly the true hotties — as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together." I like to think of a cougar as a confident, independent, young-spirited woman who happens to prefer the company of younger men.