My ex boyfriend is dating


I'm working at a day camp this summer with guess who? Clearly, she does not own him but you do want to be both a sensitive and kind friend. A Confused Teenage Girl Dear Teen, You are struggling with a dilemma that women,men,teens and adults deal with throughout life.Your first move is obvious - you need to start communication up again but not where it left off.Initially you're best choice is to reach out via the web.



Play It Carefully - Be Subtle You don't want to become too wrapped up in playing with his mind - no one likes to feel someone else's thoughts or ideas prodding around in there but sometimes playing dirty is the only way to get a foot in the door.You also do not need to talk about her ex around her regardless of how close you are or aren't. If you have a close friend who is reeling from a break-up then you absolutely need to speak to her and talk to her about her feelings about you possibly dating her ex.If you have made a definite decision to date him then let her know that and reassure her that you will date him but will be low key about it You may also want to find out what went wrong.When you do start contact be prepared to meet some extreme uncertainty on his part - it's going to take a little bit of time for him to consider your possible motives. He won't respond favorably if he thinks you're trying to undercut his new relationship right off the bat.